14 | The Cultural Architect of Your Family
Parenting happens by design or default. And, honestly, it’s easier— though it seems more difficult— to do it with a plan.
But doing it with a plan requires a few things.
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I went into the studio with a friend who invited me to discuss my “part art / part science” long-term approach to parenting.
Remember, we got a second chance to do the parenting thing all over again, implementing the adjustments many of us look back and think about— “Oh, if I only knew then what I know now…”
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Here’s what you need to know…
Parenting a toddler is different than parenting a teen. And that’s different than parenting a son or daughter who’s now a senior in college or just stepping into the full time workforce.
That seems obvious.
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But how do you know what each child needs at each stage of life?
And how can you not only know WHAT they need but also HOW to transfer that lesson, that bit of leadership to them?
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In this discussion we dialogue about the three phases of parenting….
🔴 0- 5 years, discipline = building a foundation
🟠 6-12 years, training = developing soft skills
🟢 13+, coaching = equipping them to make good, “life” decisions
We start breaking them down, as well as discuss why you need to manage the culture moreso than just manage the schedule and the agenda…
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Links you need to know about =
📺 The parenting mini course = www.BeRefreshed.org/MC
📳 Schedule a 25-minute “zoom-type” Discovery Call with Randy = www.BeRefreshed.org/DC
🔗 The grand parenting group (online) = https://www.berefreshed.org/GP
👉 1:1 coaching info with Randy = www.BeRefreshed.org/PC
Previous podcast episodes which are great next steps from here =
✅ #8, about the “Three phases / three stages” of parenting = https://berefreshed.mykajabi.com/podcasts/be-refreshed/episodes/2149047725
✅ #12, about “Tools” for each of the three stages of parenting =
https://berefreshed.mykajabi.com/podcasts/be-refreshed/episodes/2149047730
✅ #13, about “The Flow” = https://berefreshed.mykajabi.com/podcasts/be-refreshed/episodes/2149047731
Links to Andy’s site referenced in this talk:
📣 Andy’s podcast = go to www.Jenkins.tv
🦅 GY6 project = www.GY6.online