An on-demand course to equip you to help raise the next generation of great humans! 

⭐️ You weren't designed to be just the sugar-fairy or the babysitter (though there's certainly a time and place for both!), you were created to pour your wisdom and experience into your grandkids.

⭐️ It doesn't work when you overstep your children, so you need a way to respect their autonomy while ALSO guiding them to avoid the mistakes and mishaps you wish you could do differently.

⭐️ It's easier if you have insight into the developmental stages of children (from 0-21), ensuring you provide the right kind of support at the right time (which is essential to being an effective grandparent).

This is three generations of family...

One of our grandsons (in the back center) decided he wanted to go on a triple day with his parents and his grandparents. 

We counted it as a win, because what high-schooler wants to hang out with his girlfriend, his parents, and his grandparents?!

It was a long journey to get here, and we're still working at it!

Tammy and I got married in 1979.

A few years into it we welcomed Jarod, our oldest son, into the family. Abby, our daughter (pictured here with her husband, Brent), followed close behind…

… and then Eric.

We thought we were done.

In fact, as kids began making their way into college (with others moving into high school, soon to be there with them), we thought that—

✅ Yes, that was a great run— we did a good job raising those kids and preparing them for adulthood

‼️ But there are so many things we would do a bit differently if we had a chance to go back

Most people don’t get a second shot at parenting, but we did. We discovered that Jackson was on the way— over a decade behind the rest of the kids.

Though I had been intentionally applying the lessons I was learning about parenting (it was a wake-up call when Jarod left for college), we intentionally applied ALL of the lessons anew with Jackson…

With one kids in diapers and another living in the dorms, we “installed” the Strategic Parenting Blueprint (though it didn’t have a name at the time) for the next two decades…

... and right as we were getting "good" at parenting, our oldest kids began having kids of their own. We became grandparents.

We learned a few things about how parenting and grand-parenting are both similar and different-- because we began doing both at the same time!

With ten grandkids, we’re still doing it— as a support system to our four kids who are now raising and loving their own kids well!

The Videos

📺 4 super-short, super-power-packed videos (less than 15 minutes each) = no wasting your time

♻️ Watch as many times as you want = no time limits and expiration dates

📳 Login from all your devices, including your phone + your tablet + your computer + even some smart TVs…

The Strategic Parenting Blueprint

📝 44-page, power-packed templates = You'll have it all at-a-glance with this handy PDF. Consider it your "cheat sheet" for parenting... 

✅ Download it as many times as needed --> In fact, print it, post it, place it on the mirror, your day-timer, and more. Use it like an on-the-go-guidebook. Even pass it to your friends and family members!

Text templates

A few years ago, a thought hit me...

💭 "I have access to my kids and grandkids via text... and that's how so many of them prefer connect, and their phones are almost always with them..."

This lead to an idea.

💡 Take some of the things I learned during my morning prayer teams, sermon and teaching prep, and transform them into bite-sized nuggets of truth. 

Everyone loved it.

More surprisingly, they engaged back!

I'll provide you with my text template (8 weeks of them), as well as tips on how to decide whether to send them in real time OR take a few minutes one day a week and schedule a batch of them (most people are shocked to discover your phone ALREADY has the capacity to do this).